by rhaug » Mon Jan 05, 2009 6:16 am
rofl i dont smoke
its just from daily experience.
just learned that a positive attitude can create wonders
i know we all can have a bad day but lets get over it and rather look ahead then drain your energy on past failures or frustrations. some woman or man said failures are the stepping stones towards succes!
set a goal for yourself or the guild and work towards it.
what is important is that we are all together the heart of illumanati
so you can choose yourself what you like to contribute to the guild and all fellow players.
growth and joy is not far away its actually something that you can choose to contribute.
the actions you create are the seeds for the reality of tomorrow.
if you believe in something, you create a atmosphere where in things become possible.
then the next step is actually to just do it.
for growth as a guild we first create a good atmosphere and we believe in what we can do and what we want.
friendliness, a open heart to each other, some interest in the live behind toons etc, a friendly chat. a positive focus on what we do in raid and play time. some communication about who does what in raid and a plan of working it out.
open communication
i think we can leave behind some frustration and set our small disputes away with each other.
i like that we all focus on what we can do and enjoy that.
when we do put in a positive attitude and effort
then something becomes possible, just see yourself raiding tbs sof and other zones and everything else what you like to do in the game.
the difference is in what we put forward ourselves.
for example when we raid with 18 players and everyone is complaning and feeling bad
then the next week we will not get even 18 players online.
the same raid can be with 18 players and we can do our best to work a strategy out, buff together so we are prepared, everyone knows what to do. we enjoy what we do. and we go for it.
there will be some fun that we are able to do things we did not know was possible.
the next week we look forward to the raid and are in a good mood.
then other people come back logging in since they hear also that something has changed and illu is alive and a place where you can meet friends from all over the world.
new recruits or people we group with will experience that illumanati people are friendly and sharing and not selfish or egoistic.
it can take a few days or longer, you can see the difference between both scenarios?
etc etc
in short this post is about
you create your own reality with what you think and do. its a bit the movie the secrets
it also works outside everquest since the law of attraction is universal.
we can go back to the basics of friendliness in game, clear tactics, a smooth and good organisation these are all things we can work on and improve.
its just practical stuff
try it our for yourself
remember the days when you where sad or angry or dissapointed and the whole day you attract more of this kind of experiences and people?
then there was these days that you felt happy and lovely and joyfull and strong and full of energy
and thesamething repeats itself that day you meet also more other people with that same experience and if it was different then it could not bring you down since you feel full of live yourself. then you cheer up the sad or angry people or at least keep your own peace.
if we want something from illumanati then live it yourself.
with people that leave and dont have fun, and take a break and play other games
the same thing is also possible the other way! so try it and see for yourself.
do you really think wow and other games are better? forget it.
eq is still very good in gameplay and content.
people went away because somehow the joy or atmosphere was gone.
ok enjoy
time for morning meditation lol
just be natural
rhaug